What a man feels after his betrayal - a man's look from the inside

Emotion is sincerity, so it is extremely foolish to accuse a man of being expansive.

In this case, the problem is not only in him, but also in his woman, who does not want to accept him as he is.

You can't keep everything in yourself all the time. What does a man feel? Absolutely, too, he can experience a wide variety of emotions, it does not depend on gender, but rather on the environment, upbringing, values, priorities, conscience. There are people who are very anxious that they have committed third-party adultery, are worried about this, engage in self-flagellation. Some, on the contrary, believe that absolutely everyone lives this way, take it for granted: the search for something new, diverse.

Sex is a way to distract from problems, not betrayal, sexual desire does not always mean the presence of feelings. If a man has cheated, this does not mean that he does not love or is indifferent to the further development of events, the lady whom he betrayed.

Perhaps the husband is clearly aware of the betrayal and no longer intends to make mistakes, to be faithful to his woman, sometimes such mistakes only contribute to strengthening the relationship. It is worth noting that the male view of adultery is very different, because they are not inclined to dramatize, they are easier to seduce, but this is not such a thoughtful, desperate step as for women.

The realization that he did the wrong thing, of course, can disturb after the act of infidelity, but not for long, male infidelity is a widespread phenomenon, so it is accepted - he thinks after the act.

Can you blame it? Probably not, because “after the battle they don’t wave their fists”, it remains only to accept this fact, to accept it, and hysteria, suffering, guilt will still not help, will not change anything. The female sex is deeply mistaken in the fact that in some situations she considers herself smarter, they begin moralizing, reading, but time cannot be returned, such behavior can only aggravate the situation, push a loved one further, remember: no scandals, raised tones, threats ...

Only a look from the inside allows you to feel the entire influx of sensations seething in the traitor. Initially, he never ceases to think about his wife, think over possible options, strategies, which could threaten an oversight if she did find out. Moral stress, depression are not excluded, although often guys do not focus much on this, because this is their nature: love and sex are not identical concepts.

At first, when setting up a mistress, she will absorb wine in front of the family, a desire to delve into the needs, the course of all affairs and needs at the same time, but over time, such manifestations of nobility will only dissipate, so the best thing is to let go of the bitter resentment against yourself, behave like nothing it happened, otherwise - a huge risk of exposure. It is impossible to talk about any particular demeanor that is characteristic of everyone at the same time, such does not exist.

Some see themselves as a macho, conqueror of girls' hearts, someone is henpecked and immediately tries to erase the incident from memory, return to the family, learns sincere remorse, fear for the future of marriage. Falling in love is the worst trait, an individual begins to be torn between several passions at once, the determining factor in the development of the plot, the choice is temperament, mindset, the ability to sensibly, to really look at things.

In terms of relationships, the male gender always allows various liberties, considering it absolutely unacceptable for his lady, without forgiving such antics, this is the height of selfishness; equality, religion allows all members of society to commit the same oversights, to receive forgiveness, which of us is without sin? Female apostasy is less common and likely has more grounds, so sex on the side without love, boredom in the intimate sphere, the desire for adventure is not an excuse for your actions.

Change of behavior

Fleeting connections should not jeopardize further family life. If you want to "go left" - think over a strategic plan to the smallest details. Excuses about delays at work should be original, or better - an irregular schedule.

A lover may not have a feeble influence, therefore, before the spouse's suspicions arise, it would not hurt to tell her some nuances, lure her, offer to support herself in changing the style of clothing, hairstyle, and come up with motivation for playing sports. The tricks will turn the situation in favor, it will seem as if everything that happens is being done for the good of two, thus, it will turn out to please both the wife and the kept woman.

The basics: calmness, natural behavior, no nerves, irritability, constant password changes.

Avoid compromising calls, correspondence, switched off phones, running around the house in order to retire and chat, always remain vigilant, remembering the insidiousness, overdeveloped intuition of the opposite sex.

A lover should relax, relieve tension, and not enrage, throw tantrums, threaten with a slip of the tongue, a correct, intelligent girl will reduce the risk of exposure, not sink into clashes with her legal wife, will not put her reputation on the line, become a real friend, assistant.

Who is guilty?

Only wise, mature individuals are able to accept infidelity as a test, to take some of the blame on themselves. It's easy to blame each other, quarrel, argue in your favor, but in fact, you need to figure it out. Everyday life, routine, monotony - makes life boring and unbearable, passion, romance is lost, joy becomes less. The bottom line is that both are to blame.

It happens when, after betrayal, the sinner completely repents, feels disgust for what happened, out of his stupidity reveals the situation in front of his soul mate, but apart from reproaches and moralizing he hears nothing. Of course, in such a situation you will no longer want to decide anything, after all, not only do you “gnaw” yourself, but at the same time you are oppressed again with renewed vigor.

The stronger the love and respect, the stronger the moral rules that will not allow offending, they do not always choose the handsome, fit, the reason may lie in the spiritual disposition, better attitude, understanding, acceptance with all the virtues and vices.

There are times when everything is fine in the family circle, but maturity takes its toll, there is a desire to assert itself, to prove that he is capable of much, the process of conquest is a pleasure. As a rule, this is rarely the case. The main motive is problems, grumbling, quarrels, a feeling of being needed, wanted, satisfied.

Only active, attentive, passionate natures are doomed to happiness without drama and fornication. The ability to forgive makes life easier for two parties at once, strengthens, makes you appreciate, stop third-party searches for something more beautiful (an adequate point of view), a negative outcome means only the absence of something in common, gives rise to life changes.