The insidiousness of virtual betrayal

The meaning of the word betrayal is unambiguous - a violation of loyalty to someone or something, betrayal. Fidelity is a more vague concept, everyone perceives it in their own way. For some, a spouse's interested glance at a woman passing by is already treason, and someone justifies his soul mate even when the fact of "walking to the left" is well known. But be that as it may, in real life, cheating is easily determined: lie + sex on the side. In the world of the Internet and SMS, cheating is much more difficult to define. And indeed, what kind of betrayal does virtual betrayal carry, because there are no direct, physical adultery in it, and correspondence with a virtual lover or mistress can always be convincingly justified ...

Male or female infidelity is more insidious

In real life, the stronger sex is spoiled by the centuries-old suppression of women, and therefore is more perverted by the "scientific" justifications of their male exclusivity, by the fact that the concept of adultery in relation to men is interpreted as a natural need to maintain the demographic balance of the planet. Hence the justification for male infidelity - they say, what you do, the natural instinct is stronger.

Or, for example, a wife saw her husband's correspondence with an unknown girl, to whom he passionately talks about his erotic desires. Will she run to file for divorce? Unlikely. Most likely, she, albeit with distrust, will listen to her husband's assurances that he wanted new sensations, since in family life, alas, she went into oblivion, so she decided to have some fun. But he still loves only his beloved. He listens and waves his hand - oh well, let him have fun. All the same, after all, he is nearby, he does not run after other people's women, you look, and he will go crazy over time.

Progress is a moral killer

Well, it turns out that with the advent of the Internet into our lives, it is possible to comfortably, without wasting money, nerves and energy, take a break from "family ties" in an atmosphere of cyberintimacy, not considering it a sin, because "this is not true"? How to say…

It is now common knowledge that the virtual network has become the most common form of adultery. In the simplicity with which you can easily acquire a new object of flirting, and just as easily carry on erotic correspondence, while being in the family, lies a great danger... Let such flirting not develop into something more serious and become real, but the psychological consequences of virtual betrayal can be devastating. Primarily for family life.

Psychological addiction

Even without contacting a virtual or lover, but simply regularly visiting "adult sites", a "strawberry" lover tunes his psyche to the possibility of real betrayal, his imagination helpfully offers him various sexual fantasies, which, for whatever reason, he cannot or does not dare to realize in family life. Such fantasies, bringing pleasure, each time are born more boldly and more sophisticated, and, in the end, become the same need as alcohol or drugs. Such a person, watching, for example, TV, does not pay attention to what is being said there, he is interested in the figures and faces of the speakers, their sexuality. Walking down the street, talking with people, being in any public place, he sees those around him not as interlocutors, his employees or just passers-by. No, he assesses everyone as a possible object for his future lustful fantasies. It seems that such behavior cannot be called treason, but you can forget about closeness and understanding in the family - the partner has an addiction.

To write does not mean to marry?

Perhaps the most defended type of virtual betrayal is fleeting flirting. There are even many supporters of the idea that sometimes you need to start a short-term romance on the side - this only makes the marital relationship stronger. May be. But, be that as it may, between Internet lovers, in any case, there is an emotional closeness that makes the defendants frank together destroying sincere and trusting relationships in their families. This means that there can be no talk of love and respect. Both in the course of a long erotic correspondence, and during a one-time intimacy.

Treason or self-indulgence?

The desire to have an affair on the side (even on the Internet) means that the wife (or husband) is not satisfied with something, and instead of finding the strength and patience to correct the situation, an easy, comfortable and even pleasant one is chosen. but the dastardly way is virtual treason. After all, any romance on the side - in life or on the Internet - is a violation of those vows and promises that were made at the very beginning of family life, this is the faithful trust of a partner. So, in any case, virtual betrayal is just as treacherous as real.