Good afternoon! With his health, depending on which side you look at. After the accident, an iron plate was sewn into his leg, which, of course, must be removed, but this is money and time and the postoperative period, he is not ready for this, especially since it does not seem to bother him. He even began to think about whether it would be necessary to remove it at all, but for this he wants to get a consultation with a good doctor, and puts everything off. And so, he leads a normal life, walks without a stick, does not limp, though his arm, after the accident, also does not unbend to the end, but this cannot be corrected and does not bother him either.

Time to rest, ....... no, we practically don’t go anywhere, neither to visit, nor to the shopping center, he is mainly at work, and now he has also begun to leave overnight for another city, these are business trips, and he leaves in the morning to work, in the afternoon he calls that he went, then in the evening that he did everything and stays there to spend the night, and in the morning back to work in the office (and not home!), and calls from the office, home only in the evening, as usual with work, i.e. he's been gone for over a day. And back to work the next day. This is what I tried to discuss in the last conversation, because. my patience came to an end, well, and actually agreed to where I started the story.

There is no one to leave the children with, my mother sometimes helps out, but she works and I myself do not like how she copes with this, she spoils the children very much, does not follow certain rules of our family, and on the contrary, she can question our rules. For example, he does not approve of all sections for the eldest son (gymnastics, development school, swimming pool), he no longer openly declares, but he constantly sets the child against it, I feel it. She does not go anywhere herself and believes that they should only stay at home, she does not even like to walk with children. We have no one to turn to besides her, firstly, there is no such person to whom we would entrust our children, it’s scary to search through ads, but of course you can, but somehow all attempts are cut short, the question of finances immediately arises, then mom sits for free - this is perhaps the most important thing so far.

We had a joint hobby - it was mountain skiing, many years ago, and then he began to engage in other types, I could not keep up with him, he always does everything easily, and I study for a long time. So recently he returned from Egypt, went kiting with a company, I thought he would rest - a brand new, fresh one would arrive, but he, on the contrary, arrived aloof.

He finds reasons for all my proposals to relax with his family, even last summer we went to the reservoir where he rode, and I ran along the shore to collect the children so that they would not climb into the water, it was impossible to swim there. In general, I endured, I thought that with my family, on the other hand. And then I began to refuse to ride, it was easier for me to take a walk in the yard with the children. He even sent me to Egypt before his trip with the words "people should rest from each other", I went, had a good rest, for the first time I went all alone, only upon arrival I began to understand when he began to talk about his trip, why he sent me - to lull your feelings of guilt. Because he already went to ride there several years ago, when we only had a little son, for about a year, I stayed alone with him. And then she didn’t let go, if you can call it that, then we already had 2 children. And when I expressed my vision of the situation to him, he was offended, he says that he was sincerely happy for me that I would go to rest.